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People whose sense of who they are has been unsettled by a role ending or changing. That includes veterans, emergency services and NHS staff, military families, people in recovery and anyone facing a career change or a major life change.

Is this therapy or counselling?

No. AURIS Academy is education. It teaches a structured way to understand identity, adaptation and stability. It does not replace medical or mental health care. For immediate danger, contact your local emergency services. For other support, use an appropriate qualified service.

What is the AURIS framework?

Five pillars: Awareness, Understanding, Regulation, Identity and Stability. Each course teaches one part of that framework, drawn from an ongoing research programme built on the ongoing Identity After the Uniform interview programme.

What does the wider learning cost?

Introduction to AURIS and other selected Academy courses are permanently free. Paid courses show their price before checkout, are paid once and include lifetime access with no subscription.

“Take away your opinion, and there is taken away the complaint.”
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

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What can I do with this, today?

You do not have to solve the whole situation. Start by separating your actions, your shared influence and a result that is not yours alone to decide.

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For a pending appeal, separate what can be done—checking the deadline and preparing evidence—from what may be influenced—asking for clarification—and what cannot be decided—the final outcome. A reasonable next step is to list questions to ask tomorrow.

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Why this work exists

Experience, research and practical learning.

Gemma Gardner served in the British Army for 15 years. Her experience of service, identity and change helped shape the questions behind AURIS.

The work brings lived experience together with established identity psychology, behavioural science and an ongoing interview programme. The five AURIS pillars are Awareness, Understanding, Regulation, Identity and Stability.

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interviews reported coded

Owner-reported as of 28 October 2026. The Identity After the Uniform study has a planned sample of 108 interviews. Register reconciliation remains separate from this progress update.

These interviews explore lived experience. They do not establish that a course is effective. AURIS distinguishes established research, emerging findings and educational applications.

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Who am I beyond this role?

Understanding Identity

Explore values, relationships and capabilities you want to carry forward.

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How could I respond differently?

Emotional Regulation

Build a flexible response plan with alternatives, support and a review point.

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What could help my week hold together?

Building Stability

Draft a feasible routine with a fallback, boundaries and available support.

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Course pages explain what is included and how access works. A saved answer or a completion certificate records learning activity; neither guarantees a personal outcome.

Learning in community settings

Putting the work into practice.

Out in the Bay

Out in the Bay completed delivery of the six week AURIS programme. A white paper examining its findings, learning and limitations is being prepared. Attendance and individual completion varied; this pilot does not establish course effectiveness.

Trafford Veterans CIC

Trafford Veterans CIC is helping take this approach into the veteran community, where belonging, connection and purpose matter. Explore its checked listing for information about its community work.

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Read the evidence as the work develops